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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …
A Life Coach for people with self-confidence or self-esteem issues is very valuable in answering this following question. Women seem to suffer mostly from self-esteem, sense of abandonment and worthiness problems. Coaching Life for Women is one way to solve this problem in life coaching. Anita asks: “Are some of us just meant to be alone”? Anita, considering the fact that you responded to our survey concerning love and the Law of Attraction, I am assuming you have been thinking about finding a relationship for you. There are many who decide to keep out of intimate relationships. And that isn’t necessarily the situation for someone who has given up because they’ve continuously been unsuccessful. Not a thing is wrong with preferring to be without a serious relationship. Your life can be fulfilling and wonderful with any choice you end up with.
As long as you realize you are choosing that rather than throwing up your hands out of frustration that you haven’t created the relationship of a lifetime. You can acquire everything in a relationship and in life.
If you could view yourself from the perspective of Source or your Inner Being, or the Universe, you’d be viewing a wonderful, magnificent, illuminated, connected person. Then life begins to occur around us. Our oblivious parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to teach us, tell us from day one what we need to watch out for, warn us, caution us, and try to shelter us, effectively having us adhere to their fear and projections of insecurity rather than listening to our own energy. OK, I will give you as brand new children we do need support. Fine. But soon following they learn to do things by themselves, self-actualization needs to be part of the training for the small ones.
Well-intentioned guides want to do the right thing so they guide, hold back, admonish, and scare young ones to make them behave. This only underscores a level of insecurity and inability. The feeling of not-enoughness gets instilled as a child.
Neurological research now explains to us that until we are 7, we are so open and receptive, we have no filtering ability at all. We go around in a sort of hypnagogic trance and become amazed with whatever happens to enter our life experience. It is not a wonder we have deeply ingrained, although misguided, beliefs about a flawed nature. By the time we are 6 years old, we’ve heard the word “NO” about 60,000 times. Watch out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, do not drop that. The subliminal communication says you’re unworthy, you cannot believe in you, you do not know what you are doing, and so on.
Our parents and elders were certainly well-meaning. They only intended for our well-being. But you can see how simply we have been whisked away from our innate greatness and brilliance.
I suggest that you go easy with yourself and give yourself a chance. Firstly, it’s not your fault. It is not even the fault of your elders. They were taught the same way as well. You can end the prevalence of lower self-esteem on yourself and those you care about. You deserve to have anything you wants.
Do your very best to give yourself appreciation and self-acceptance. Adhere to yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The truth is, the Universe appreciates, Spirit admires you, and your Inner Being adores you. Why? Because you ARE adorable. And that IS the reality!
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